Comrade Tortoise wrote:
No. He disassociated while he was "abused" he slipped into a happy place. He doesnt "crave" it like Nalifan thinks, but he is certainly disfunctional.
Nalifan doesn't believe he craves it. He said a number of things as a part of his fishing expedition, trying to find out what remarks hit home.
he didnt escape because..well...can you really escape a wizard that easily? One spell and he knows where you are, and teleports to you. You HAVE to kill them to escape.
Bullshit. If you're powerful enough to have a chance against them in a duel, escape and evasion is quite possible. Nalifan is completely correct and even your character bio agrees with him. Astinius had almost no chance in combat against his former master. It was Spellfire which turned the tide, a gift Nalifan doesn't know about and Astinius isn't eager to reveal. Nalifan's conclusions are entirely correct based on the evidence he has at the time.
As for Jealousy... no, Nalifan was off the mark there... at least as I originally wrote the character
Possibly. There is undoubtedly some truth in one of the things Nalifan suggested. Nalifan doesn't know what exactly Astinius is concealing, but clearly Astinius craves affection. He flaunts his wounds and brags about his virtue so much, he craves the aprobation of others. It would in fact be natural for Astinius to have mixed and confused emotions during his decades long ordeal. This doesn't mean he did anything wrong, of course, just that he feels guilty about some of the things he felt. Nalifan, of course, has more experience observing these sorts of situations and relationships than most other people.
It's not that I'm unforgiving, it's that most of the people who wrong me are unrepentant assholes.